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This is what it feels like to have lupus

July 21st, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
Even if I were to lay out all of her symptoms one by one you might not figure out that Jo Ann Plante has lupus. That’s because the disease is not well known to the average person — even though it’s estimated that more than 16,000 new cases are reported every year in the United States. It’s also because lupus has lots of symptoms that are similar to a host of other diseases. It’s sometimes called the “great imitator.” Read the Rest »
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The garden is bursting with basil, so let’s make some pesto together!

July 21st, 2016 | Nom Nom

I love basil! The look of it. The smell of it. The taste of it. I especially love that we're growing it in our garden. Every night I'm out there snipping off leaves so I can add some to whatever I'm making. Salad, pizza, pasta. Read the Rest »

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Where You Can Pick Blueberries in Maine

July 20th, 2016 | Catching Health Stories, Nom Nom
If you're looking for a farm that will let you pick your own blueberries, you're in luck because there are several in Maine. Read the Rest »
Diane Atwood's mother

How to recognize a swallowing problem in someone with dementia

July 19th, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
My mother had a couple of choking episodes recently. I wasn't alarmed because she's had swallowing issues in the past. At least twice over the years, she had a procedure that stretched her esophagus because of a stricture or narrowing. Read the Rest »
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Some expert advice on how to be a good grandparent

July 12th, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
My daughter and her husband had their first baby a month ago. A sweet, adorable little girl. My first grandchild. They live out of state, but we (and her other grandparents) were able to meet her a few hours after she was born. Read the Rest »

4 little-known facts about black flies that may make you hate them a little less

July 11th, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...

I don't know which I dislike the most. Ticks? Mosquitoes? Deer flies? Black flies? UGH to them all! For this post, though, I'll devote my energy to the almighty black fly!

Black flies may not transmit diseases in the United States like ticks and mosquitoes do, but they sure can be a nuisance. There are 1500 to 1800 known species in the world. We've got about 40 species in Maine — four to six bite and they're all females. Males prefer nectar, but the females go for blood — they need a protein-rich blood meal so they can lay eggs. Did you know? Black flies will fly up to 10 miles in search of blood! Read the Rest »
Diane Atwood's mother

Podcast: Dementia forced me to learn how to love my mother in a whole new way

July 8th, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
Within months after my father's death in 2009, we could tell something was wrong with my mother. Before then, we knew she was having trouble with her memory, but we weren't worried. After all, she was in her mid-80s. And because our dad was seriously ill, most of our attention was on him. Read the Rest »
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A gold medal award for a Maine author’s book about children, cancer and sibling love

Maine artist and author Sally Loughridge just found out that her book, Daniel and His Starry Night Blanket: A Story of Illness and Sibling Love has won its sixth award. Read the Rest »
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The alcohol intervention that gave us back our father: On the Morning Report

July 6th, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
This is a tribute to my father, who died in 2009. At the time of his death, he had been sober nearly 25 years. With the help of a trained counselor, my family had done an alcohol intervention. It started him (and us) on his path to sobriety. I talked about the process recently on the Morning Report. Read the Rest »
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Herbal first aid for bug bites

July 5th, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
Guest post by Lauren Breau, MAcOM, L.Ac  ‘Tis the season of wild strawberries and lobster bakes and body-surfing fat Atlantic waves ... but it’s also the season for getting chewed alive by bugs. (If you’ve ever been dive-bombed by a black fly while floating on an inflatable tube designed to resemble an ice cream sandwich, you know exactly what I mean.) Read the Rest »
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Before you set off those 4th of July fireworks — how to stay safe and follow the law

July 1st, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
Ever since it became legal to buy fireworks in Maine, I swear I hear them all year long in my neighborhood. Somebody always seems to be celebrating something! If you're planning to put on a 4th of July display in your backyard, it's important to know the law in your community. Not all states allow ordinary people like you and me to use fireworks.  Read the Rest »
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A salad recipe that’s meant to soothe an irritable bowel

June 30th, 2016 | Nom Nom

Do you often get a belly ache or diarrhea after eating certain foods or when you're under stress or worrying about something? It happens to most of us every once in a while, but if you deal with it on a regular basis, you might have irritable bowel syndrome or IBS.

The brain in your gut

Health experts believe IBS symptoms are caused by faulty communication between the brain in the head and the brain in the gut. That's right — your gut has a brain! Read the Rest »
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Looking for a new primary care provider? Some advice from a doctor

June 27th, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
Guest Post by John Yindra, M.D. It can be challenging to find a primary care provider (PCP) who is a good fit for you and your family. Friends often say to me, “It must be easy for you to find a PCP because you’re a doctor.” Despite what you might think, finding a healthcare provider isn’t necessarily second nature for us — it’s that we know what to look for and how to find it. Here are some tips if you are looking for a healthcare provider. Read the Rest »
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Hypothermia isn’t the only risk in cold water

June 24th, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
Hypothermia happens when the body loses heat faster than it can be produced. Normal body temperature is 98.6 °F.  Below 95 °F is considered hypothermia. Organs, body functions and systems slow down — breathing, the heart, the nervous system, for instance — which can lead to heart failure and death.  Read the Rest »
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Why you should drink water and other beverages at room temperature

June 23rd, 2016 | Nom Nom
Guest post by Kath Bartlett, Doctoral Fellow, LAc You may love that glass of iced tea or soda on a hot day. However, Chinese medicine disagrees with this choice. Read the Rest »
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Get rid of pesky deer flies with this easy-to-make hat trap

June 22nd, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
Thanks to a yard thick with deer flies, mowing the lawn used to be a nightmare for my husband, Barry. Now, it's a dream. Well, that might be an exaggeration, but it's a whole lot better. He shares his secret to getting rid of deer flies in this guest post.  Read the Rest »
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For the love of our father my family joined forces in a battle against alcohol

June 21st, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
My father, Bob Swett, died on December 10, 2009. He might have died years earlier if not for a critical decision our family made in the mid-80s. Not everyone would agree with our approach, but it worked for our family. We did it out of love and we were able to share that love with him (and vice versa) for nearly 25 more years. Read the Rest »
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How Bettina Blanchard tries to simplify life — hers and ours

June 20th, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
Two years ago, I invited Bettina Blanchard into my home to help me clear out and paint my favorite room. At the time, she was still running her business All in Place and for the most part, helped people clear clutter, clean and become better organized. I had hired her three times before — once to help me organize my office when I worked outside my home and the other times as gifts to my daughters. Read the Rest »
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A history of bloody noses turned out to be a serious condition called HHT

June 17th, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
Lots of people get bloody noses, especially as kids. But when you get them a lot and sometimes they go on and on and on, it's time to take notice. Darcey Pomerleau's father had a history of bloody noses that got worse when he reached his 50s. One episode led to a diagnosis he'd never heard of before. HHT. It stands for Hereditary Hemorrhagic Telangiectasia — a genetic disorder of the blood vessels. It occurs in about one in 5000 people.  Read the Rest »
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Alopecia Areata. On the Morning Report

June 16th, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
Search the word "bald" and you’ll find lots of information — about men going bald. On the Morning Report, Sharon Vaznis and I talked about alopecia areata, a disease that causes baldness in men and women. Jean Jackson, from New Hampshire, was kind enough to let us share her story. Read the Rest »
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Don’t Miss This: Strawberry Rhubarb Pie and Nona Mac’s Southern Pastry, Vegan Style

June 13th, 2016 | Catching Health Stories, Nom Nom

My plan was to write about rhubarb and share a healthy rhubarb pie recipe. That's because rhubarb is low in calories and has an assortment of vitamins and minerals that are good for us. And, it's in season. Trouble is, most rhubarb recipes are loaded with sugar to cut its strong tart flavor. I asked several friends if they had a rhubarb pie recipe I could use and they all told me they don't eat rhubarb anymore because they're trying to avoid sugar. Read the Rest »

Where to Pick Strawberries in Maine

June 9th, 2016 | Catching Health Stories, Nom Nom

Is there anything else quite as delicious as a handful of freshly picked strawberries? Check out the Catching Health list of farms across Maine that let you pick your own strawberries. If a farm has a website or Facebook page, I included a link. Otherwise, you might want to call ahead to make sure it’s open for picking.

Wherever possible, I have included information about a farm's use of pesticides.

If you want to add a farm or additional information to the list or notice something that needs to be corrected, please let me know. I'll tell you how at the end of the post.

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100+ Women in Southern Maine are rocking the world

When Deb Bergeron founded the group 100+ Women Who Care Southern Maine, she hoped she'd get at least 100 women to join. Eighty attended the inaugural meeting in November 2014. Today, there are nearly 200 members. Read the Rest »
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What would you do if you suddenly lost all your hair? It happened to this woman

June 6th, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
Jean Jackson is bald. Totally. Not a single hair on her entire body. It's happened to her twice. The first time was about nine years ago when she was 64. Read the Rest »
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The challenging ups and downs of thyroid disease

June 6th, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
More tired than usual? Losing hair? Feeling low? Irritable? Shedding pounds when you're not even trying? Or dieting like crazy and the scale won't budge? These are all symptoms of thyroid disease. Read the Rest »
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How much protein do we need and how do we get it? Plus a great recipe

June 2nd, 2016 | Nom Nom

I remember being a kid and my mother pleading with me to eat my scrambled eggs before heading off to school "You need your protein," she'd say, "so you'll have strong muscles and you'll be able to learn things."

Decades have passed and I still have things to learn. And to this day, I often remind myself about getting enough protein.

Protein is important. About 15 percent of the average person's body mass is made up of protein. Our muscles, skin and hair are mostly protein. And we need protein to keep everything working properly. Read the Rest »

Liam Thomas

A special dog for a little boy with diabetes. On the Morning Report

June 1st, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...

In 2015, four-year-old Liam Thomas was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes. Because his sugar levels fluctuate throughout the day and night, his parents hope to get him a special kind of monitor. A diabetic alert dog. I told his story recently on the Morning Report. Read the Rest »

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You’ve never had anything as delicious as this barbecued salmon

May 26th, 2016 | Nom Nom

Many years ago, our good friend Pete gave us a fabulous cookbook as a souvenir of his vacation in Seattle. James McNair's Salmon Cookbook. Our favorite recipe in it is for barbecued salmon. You will always find a bottle of homemade salmon barbecue sauce in our fridge. Read the Rest »

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Bug in a Jar: A little book with a big message about dying

May 25th, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
Will you think I'm weird if I tell you I think Bug in a Jar — Alison Bramhall's book about dying — is charming? I can't help it. It is.  Read the Rest »
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The difference a rescue dog could make in the life of a little boy with diabetes

May 24th, 2016 | I'm Not Your Mother, But ...
What four-year-old wouldn't want a dog? Liam Thomas is hoping to get one. A dog he can run and play and cuddle up with. A dog he can trust. With his life. Read the Rest »